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About Site Membership
About My Rates
About References
About Reservations
About My Clientele
About The Sessions
About Kylie Jordan
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About My Rates
Why do new clients need to pre-pay?
It helps me avoid flakes, pranks, robs and jerks. It takes some of the stress and worry from the first meeting as well, for me anyway. I also find it cuts down on clients who are only looking to see me once, not to establish a relationship. I think that level of trust says a lot about a person.
Payments for the first appointment are made via PayPal at the time of the reservation request by choosing the "Pay Now" option. Only return clients can choose the "Pay Later" option.
If you are unable to keep the appointment refunds will be given up to 24 hours before minus any nonrefundable expenses.
How do the deposits and pre-payments work?
New clients are respectfully asked make a deposit of 100% of the fee no less than 72 hours prior to the appointment. Payments are made via PayPal through the booking form. Payments are refundable up until 48 hours before the appointment date, minus expenses.
I do this to avoid pranks, flakes and robs. I know it takes a leap of faith to do this but I have been around long enough to (hopefully) have proved my trustworthiness.
All appointment request over 6 hours long will be asked to make a 50% deposite no less than 72 hours prior to the appointment date. These appointments are available only to return clients by special request. Payment is refundable up until 48 hours before the appointment date, minus expenses.
What types of payment do you accept.
Acceptable forms of payment are:
Cash, PayPal, Bank Transfers and Business Checks with verified information. I will take personal checks from long time VIP clients.
First time appointments must be paid in full via PayPal at the time of the first reservation request.
Any outcall request that requires me to travel between 30 minutes & 1 hour by car (one way) from my current location will require you to book no less than a 2 hour appointment and may also include travel expenses and or a travel fee.
Any outcall request that requires me to travel between 1 hour-2 hours by car (one way) from my current location will require you to book no less than a 3 hour appointment and may also include travel expenses and or a travel fee.
My standard travel fee is $200 per hour or portion there of. If you book an appointment for seven hours or longer the travel fee is waved. Travel expenses are not.
If you are requesting that I travel longer than a 2 hour drive or a 45min flight I will expect the travel arrangements to be made by you or I will be reimbursed for any travel expenses. Travel fees may apply as well.
I always say that everything in life is negotiable and everyone has a price. That includes me, however I do not negotiate with new clients or people I do not know very well. I have made it a policy never to do so and I think it’s served me well. I have in the past I have negotiated with a few (very few) long time clients and even traded goods for sessions but even then I will only do so if I am pretty sure I am getting the lions share of the deal.
About References
Do provide references for clients?
Yes I do. If you need to check a reference of a someone claiming to be a client of mine please use the contact form on this site. You will need their Client ID number to get the reference.
If they were a client within the last two years but I no longer see them I will only verify that I have seen them, I will not give any other information.
I let possible clients choose to either give me to verifiable and reputable references or use current employment as verification.
If you choose to use two references I will send out an email request. The request will have these questions on it...
-Have you seen this person?
-Last time you saw him?
-About how many times?
-Was he on time?
-Were there any issues with payment?
-Did he leave on time?
-Was he polite?
-Was he clean?
-What type of session does he request?
-Did he have any rules or special request?
-What are some of his positive traits?
-What are some of his negative traits?
-Do you have any advice for me with this client?
-Would you see him again?
I saw you a while ago, can I still use you as a reference?
I do not give references out if I have not seen you in the last 6 months. For most providers they are not just screening to make sure you are not a cop but it’s also (and sometimes more so) to get an idea of your personality.
Short of keeping a list of every client I have ever seen and notes on their personality, their likes and dislikes, etc. it's not very reasonable to give accurate references indefinitely. Most providers will not accept or give references older than six months or so because the information is just not reliable. People change, so should your references.
About Reservations
All new clients must fill out the screening form, no acceptations. Some people think because I have met them in person I will see them but this is not true. I may like you as a friend but that does not mean you are an ideal client.
After I have screened you, any information I need to keep will be filed under a 6 digit alphanumeric code, not your name. This is for everyone’s privacy and security. You will need to remember this code, I use it for everything. For example, if you want me to give another person a reference for you make sure to give them your Client Code.
Once you have your Client Code you can then use my online reservation form. It will ask for your first and last name but you are free to use your Client Code instead.
What if I forgot my Client ID number?
Just send me request on the Contact Page and I'll look it up. I'll need the email associated with the account or your first and last name.
If I have not see you in more than two years your Client ID may have been deleted. If that is the case you would need to start over and fill out a new Client Screening Form to get a new Client ID Number.
Can I request a day you are not listed as available?
Yes. You can always make a request. Requesting an appointment on a day or time that I have not set aside to be available makes booking much less likely though. Also you will probably subject to booking minimums. (see incall and outcall FAQ information.)
Can I book a partial hour appointment?
I do not offer partial hour appointments. I only book in whole hours and only start appointments on the hour.
What if I'm late or need to leave early?
Time starts and begins at the agreed upon schedule, not when you arrive or leave. If you are unable to stay the full amount of time there are no refunds. If you are late you will not be credited the time missed and it will not be added on to the end of the session.
What if I need to cancel last minute?
If you cancel and appointment less than 24 hours before the appointment time you will have to pay for 50% of that appointment before I will book with you again.
If it happens twice you will be required to pre-pay for all your appointments from then on.
About My Clientele
How do you select the people you want to meet?
I use a screening form. The screening form is an interview of sorts. It helps me determine if we have any chemistry or compatibility during a session. even if we have met in person and get along as friends that does not mean there will be chemistry in a session. Because of this you will find that there is an aspect of psychology to the questions and I pay very close attention to the answers you give, or lack there of.
I know what type of person I enjoy spending time with and this process helps me make that determination, just like this website helps you determine if you will like me. Just like you are thinking about my tone, personality and demeanor I too am examining your request for compatibility.
If you are comfortable, please take the time to fill out the optional areas also, this is often a determining factor in whether or not I will be contacting someone further to set up an appointment. This is the place to let your personality shine.
I am picky but not because I'm stuck-up. I know pretty well who I will and will not get along with, just like I'm sure you do. If I do turn down your request to meet please know that it's no more than a simple lack of chemistry. It is not a reflection on you and not a personal judgment on your personality. I like many of the people I decide not to see and have become friends on a social level. I am aware of myself enough to know it would not have worked out for me.
It's true, I turn down most of the request I get but of the people I do see I become long time friends with almost all. that's how I know my process works for me.
I am VERY picky about who I see. I am not for everyone and everyone or anyone is not for me. I don't care about your bank account or the other people you know. I care about who you are as a person and if I think we will be a good personality match.
I’m looking to meet a down-to-earth discriminating people with a positive dispositions, a good sense of humor and genuine desire to enjoy the exceptional wonders of life. I tend to enjoy the company of reputable people who are educated and compassionate without a chip on their shoulders. Who says nice guys come in last? Not me!
Most of my clients are at a place in life where they feel like there must be more out there but they are just not sure where or how to get it. They crave adventure, passion for life, some excitement and a holistic type of simulation but they just feel stuck in a life of stress, pressure, expectation and judgment. In the end I’m looking to meet people with whom I can connect on a deeper level. I'd like to establish a real friendship. If you are not looking for a long-term relationship please do not contact me. This process is not an overnight affair or something to be taken lightly.
I'd appreciate the candid expression of your expectations. It is very important that we discuss your thoughts and ideas before meeting. However, please be courteous and polite. Do not ask for sex or sexual acts, I find it offensive and will not communicate at the level more over, I will not book with you.
All sound relationships are based on mutual respect and admiration. There must be trust and understanding from the start. So like I said, I'm picky. Not because I'm stuck up but because I know who I will and will not get along with. If I do turn down your request, please know that it's no more than a simple lack of chemistry.
This makes me nervous, is that okay?
Yes! To be quite honest I get nervous meeting new people too.
Sometimes I talk too much when I get really nervous, hope that's okay. That’s one of the reasons I use a strict screen process I use a strict a screening process and require three hours or longer to get acquainted.
I need at least three hours the first meeting to be comfortable, sometimes it's shorter and sometimes it's longer but I find three hours works pretty well for me. I think it’s best to take my time when I’m getting to know new people. If you are feeling nervous I suggest booking more time so we can sit and talk over a drink or meal. In case you hadn‘t guessed by now I‘m not much of a power-hour type of girl…I prefer long walks on the beach...lol, you get what I mean.
About The Sessions
Do you offer incalls? (I go to you)
Yes, I do offer incalls. I will always have an incall available when I’m on traveling and this is how I prefer to see clients while away from home. My time while traveling is limited so I highly suggest booking several weeks (if not months) in advance.
I do not book same day appointments. Please, do not ask. I do not take "fill-in" request. If someone cancels I use that time to catch up on other things.
I live in Sacramento but I do not have a regular incall in the area and see very few people locally so I will only book incalls if the request is for an appointment 2 hours or longer. It's just not a good use of my time or resources.
I will provide hotel information the evening before our appointment. Room information will be sent either by email or text morning of.
Do you offer outcalls? (you come to me)
Any outcall request that requires me to travel between 30 minutes and 1 hour (one way) from my current location will require you to book no less than a 2 hour appointment and may also include travel expenses and or a travel fee.
Any outcall request that requires me to travel between 1 hour and 2 hours (one way) from my current location will require you to book no less than a 3 hour appointment and may also include travel expenses and or a travel fee.
My standard travel fee is $200 per hour or portion there of. If you book an appointment for 6 hours or longer the travel fee is waved. Travel expenses are not.
If you are requesting that I travel longer than a 2 hour drive or a 45 minute flight I will expect the travel arrangements to be made and paid for by you or I will be reimbursed for any travel expenses. Travel fees may apply as well.
For appointments 6 hours or longer all food, entertainment and other expenses incurred will be paid for by you unless otherwise discussed and arranged. These expences are separate from the compensation for my time and any gifts, spending money, etc. are not concidered payment. Any expenses incurred by me should be reimbursed before the conclusion of the appointment.
Why don't you do one hour appointments for dinner?
The dinner hours are the most requested time for me and often by clients booking longer appointments that include a meal or event. I like to leave this time open for them.
Dinner appointments are any appointment with a start time between 4pm - 6pm. To book during this time the appointment must be 2 hours or longer. A light dine-in meal and refreshments will be included with appointments that are 3 hours or longer if there are no plans to go out.
What do you enjoy doing during an appointment?
This is not like a doctor visit, there is no proverbial couch to sit on and I don't have a check list that I work from.
I’m pretty easy going so chances are if you are having fun so am I. Sincere stimulating conversation is a great start though. Really anything enjoyable is acceptable. In the past I have gone on adventure vacations with clients, spent the day relaxing by a fire and skinny dipped in the moonlight…I‘m up for most anything. Maybe you want to try something different and new but just need a partner in crime…I’m game!
It can take a few minutes to purge the day’s stresses and be genuinely able to let your body and mind enjoy pleasure. When we are nervous or tense and stressed we really don’t get to enjoy the full benefits of good company. There are many great ways to start a date but after that you need to be creative if you want to enjoy the engagement to its fullest potential.
There is no formula for serendipity but a lucid and relaxed mind will find favor.
I think it's safe to say that everyone’s experience and expectations are different. With that in mind I appreciate hearing candid expressions of your expectations so I can adjust my approach to suite your particular desires more but make no guarantees. If you have a specific desire, request or expectation than it’s very important that we discuss your thoughts and ideas before meeting because I go into each session with an open mind and no plan.
While I appreciate openness I do ask that you are courteous, polite and gentlemanly in your demeanor. Vulgar actions such as asking for sex or sexual acts is something I find it offensive and I will not communicate at the level. More importantly I will not book with you.
The money I receive is compensation for my time, companionship and intellectual stimulation only. I’m not a prostitute selling sexual services.
Once again; I do not offer sex for money. I offer the adventure of real living. If you are “looking for a good time“, may I suggest a restroom wall somewhere? Please do not make an attempt to solicit or negotiate sexual or lewd conduct in exchange for money, I will not respond if you do. Really.
I think it’s very important that you realize that this is not a pay to play situation, you can get that elsewhere. If you are just looking for a roll in the hay with a hot young thing I’m not your girl, sorry. However, if you are looking for someone who will make you think, feel, see and live differently, you’re in the right place.
It is necessary that you understand and agree that all money exchanged is for the agreed upon time frame only. I do not watch clocks but I do ask that you respect my time and end our session as promptly as possible, as the situation allows. Clients who take advantage of my nature won't get priority in rebooking so common sense applies.
All sound relationships are based on mutual respect and admiration. There must be trust and understanding from the start. So like I said, I'm picky. Not because I'm stuck up but because I know who I will and will not get along with. If I do turn down your request to meet please know that it's no more than a simple lack of chemistry. I turn down 75% -85% of the request I get.
You book online using the Reservations page, like a regular session.
Once we agree on a date, start time and length of session
I will email you about what chat venue you wish to use.
All payments are accepted through my PayPal account
using lavish fixation@gmail.com.
We can use any chat venue you are comfortable with including:
YahooIM, RBchat, Skype, AIM, etc.
Time begins at the reserved time not upon login, time ends promptly. Session will resume promptly if funds are deposited within 15mins of predetermined end time. This only applies to time available and should be discussed before any payments are made.
Sorry but webcam appointments must be paid in-full online and funds verified before the appointment will be confirmed.
See Calendar for available times and dates.
If you are unable to keep the appointment refunds will be given to those who give me notice up to 24 hours before, minus any nonrefundable expenses. Including the PayPal processing fee for refunded payments. I do not issue cash refunds for appointments paid online. If you choose to book another time the funds can still be used.
You have 30 days to use the funds from the time of payment. After 30 days if the funds are not used the payment will be absorbed and no credits will be available.
Yes, I do. I'm a Domme/Sub switch and do well with role-play situations.
Some of the request I have entertained in the past:
-Fusion Rope Play (western/eastern)
-CBT
-Face Sitting/Ass Worship
-Light Domination or Submission
-Power Play
-Asphyxiophilia/Choking or Suffocation
-Shaving
-Leather & Latex
-Nekomimi
-Mixophilia
-Costumes/Clothing
-Spanking
-Salirophilia
-Autoandrophilia/Strap On Play
-Roll Play
-Frotteurism
-Dacryphilia
-Foot/Shoe and Stocking Worship
-Humiliation
-Claustrophilia/Mummy Play
-Infantilism
-Mommy-Daddy Play
-Biastophilia (role-play only)
-Age Play
-Lingerie
-Ursusagalmatophilia (Plushies/Furries)
-Incest Play
-Golden-Showers/Water Sports/Omorashi
-Bondage
-Odaxelagnia
-Puppy Training
-Exhibitionism (public or not)
-Breast Worship
-Voyeurism
-Mechanophilia
-Food Sitting (sorry no sploshing)
-Trampling/Crushing
-Ignoring
-Necrophilia/Somnophilia
-Doll Fetish/Agalmatophilia
-Doubles (MFM & FMF)
There is more but this list is getting long. LOL, you get the idea. Feel free to ask if you don't see what you are looking for here.
About Kylie Jordan
I was born September 8th 1977.
I'm a Virgo.
I'm 5'9" and 140-145lbs.
I'm an American mutt, 1/2 Italian, 1/4 German and 1/4 Irish.
I have very fair skin and a few freckles.
I have an average build (thin but not super thin) with a few strategically placed curves.
My hair changes color and length weekly so ask for a current photo.
My eyes are green with an orange/rust color.
My body measurements are 34D-28-36.
Shoe size is usually a ladies 10.
My dress size can vary a lot by designer and cut.
I am pretty conservative in garb. If there is no inclement weather or special outing requiring specific attire I tend to lean towards classic or casual business attire. I’m open to request and like any girl have nearly one of everything and if not, I love a shopping trip!
When I’m relaxing at home it’s NorCal minimalistic, I’m a traditional California girl, jeans, t-shirt, hoodie and some flip-flops. On a good day, ponytails and sunglasses are always in fashion.