| If you have any other questions I'd be happy to answer them via the contact form. Here you will find... How do you select the people you want to meet? Who is your ideal client? How do I book an appointment? Do you have any rules? I’m a little nervous, is that okay? What do you enjoy doing during a session? How do you dress? Do you accept gifts? What are your stats? What am I paying for? |
I use a screening form. The screening form is an interview of sorts. It helps me determine if we have any chemistry or compatibility. There is an aspect of psychology to the questions and I pay very close attention to the answers you give, or lack there of. I know what type of person I enjoy spending time with and this process helps me make that determination, just like this website helps you determine if you will like me. Just like you are thinking about my tone, personality and demeanor I too am examining your request for compatibility. If you are comfortable, please take the time to fill out the optional areas also, this is often a determining factor in whether or not I will be contacting someone further to set up an appointment. This is the place to let your personality shine. I am picky but not because I'm stuck-up. I know pretty well who I will and will not get along with, just like I'm sure you do. If I do turn down your request to meet please know that it's no more than a simple lack of chemistry. It is not a reflection on you and not a personal judgment on your personality. I like many of the people I decide not to see and have become friends on a social level. I am aware of myself enough to know it would not have worked out for me. It's true, I turn down most of the request I get but of the people I do see I become long time friends with almost all. that's how I know my process works for me. |
I am VERY picky about who I see. I am not for everyone and everyone or anyone is not for me. I don't care about your bank account or the other people you know. I care about who you are as a person and if I think we will be a good personality match. I’m looking to meet a down-to-earth discriminating people with a positive dispositions, a good sense of humor and genuine desire to enjoy the exceptional wonders of life. I tend to enjoy the company of reputable people who are educated and compassionate without a chip on their shoulders. Who says nice guys come in last? Not me! Most of my clients are at a place in life where they feel like there must be more out there but they are just not sure where or how to get it. They crave adventure, passion for life, some excitement and a holistic type of simulation but they just feel stuck in a life of stress, pressure, expectation and judgment. In the end I’m looking to meet people with whom I can connect on a deeper level. I'd like to establish a real friendship. If you are not looking for a long-term relationship please do not contact me. This process is not an overnight affair or something to be taken lightly. I'd appreciate the candid expression of your expectations. It is very important that we discuss your thoughts and ideas before meeting. However, please be courteous and polite. Do not ask for sex or sexual acts, I find it offensive and will not communicate at the level more over, I will not book with you. All sound relationships are based on mutual respect and admiration. There must be trust and understanding from the start. So like I said, I'm picky. Not because I'm stuck up but because I know who I will and will not get along with. If I do turn down your request, please know that it's no more than a simple lack of chemistry. |
After I have screened you, any information I need to keep will be filed under a 6 digit alphanumeric code, not your name. This is for everyone’s privacy and security. You will need to remember this code, I use it for everything. For example, if you want me to give another person a reference for you make sure to give them your Client Code. The fastest way to book an appointment is by using the reservation form. You will be sent a link with your Client ID number. |
Yup, lots of them. I do not book same day appointments. Please, do not ask. I do not take "fill-in" request. If someone cancels I use that time to catch up on other things. I will always have an incall available when I’m on traveling and this is how I prefer to see clients while away from home. My time while traveling is limited so I highly suggest booking several weeks in advance. I do not offer incalls on request when I'm at home in Sacramento unless they are three hour appointments or longer. It's just not a good use of my time or resources. New clients are respectfully asked make an “uberrima fides” deposit of 50% on the honorarium no less than 72 hours prior to my departure. Payment is refundable up until 48 hours before the appointment date, minus expenses. I do this to avoid pranks, flakes and robs. I know it takes a leap of faith to do this but I have been around long enough to (hopefully) have proved my trustworthiness. All appointments over 6 hours long are required to pay a deposit of 50% not less than 72 hours prior to the appointment date. Payment is refundable up until 48 hours before the appointment date, minus expenses. This is because I will have to clear my schedule and if you cancel last min I will not be able to rebook that time. Travel expenses may apply if you are requesting that more than 1 hour away from my current location. Travel cost is $200 per hour or portion there of. Any dinner hour appointments need to be two hour or longer appointments. Three hour (or longer) appointments will include a dine-in meal and wine. Dinner hour appointments are any appointment with a start time from 4pm - 6pm. |
Yes! To be quite honest I get nervous meeting new people too. Sometimes I talk too much when I get really nervous, hope that's okay. That’s one of the reasons I use a strict screen process I use a strict a screening process and require three hours or longer to get acquainted. I need at least three hours the first meeting to be comfortable, sometimes it's shorter and sometimes it's longer but I find three hours works pretty well for me. I think it’s best to take my time when I’m getting to know new people. If you are feeling nervous I suggest booking more time so we can sit and talk over a drink or meal. In case you hadn‘t guessed by now I‘m not much of a power-hour type of girl…I prefer long walks on the beach...lol, you get what I mean. |
This is not like a doctor visit, there is no proverbial couch to sit on and I don't have a check list that I work from. I’m pretty easy going so chances are if you are having fun so am I. Sincere stimulating conversation is a great start though. Really anything enjoyable is acceptable. In the past I have gone on adventure vacations with clients, spent the day relaxing by a fire and skinny dipped in the moonlight…I‘m up for most anything. Maybe you want to try something different and new but just need a partner in crime…I’m game! It can take a few minutes to purge the day’s stresses and be genuinely able to let your body and mind enjoy pleasure. When we are nervous or tense and stressed we really don’t get to enjoy the full benefits of good company. There are many great ways to start a date but after that you need to be creative if you want to enjoy the engagement to its fullest potential. There is no formula for serendipity but a lucid and relaxed mind will find favor. |
I am pretty conservative in garb. If there is no inclement weather or special outing requiring specific attire I tend to lean towards classic or casual business attire. I’m open to request and like any girl have nearly one of everything and if not, I love a shopping trip! |
Should you bring anything? I'm a woman and all women love gifts. If you choose to bring a gift, your gift should ultimately reflect you...how you feel or your personality, not what you think I want. As far as you bringing anything, it’s not really necessary. If you’d like to bring a bottle of wine or other sinful treat to make you more at ease I’d be happy to tell you my predilections. If you want a few simple ideas feel free to e-mail me and I‘ll send you a list. Please give me a price range. |
I'm 32 year old Virgo. I'm a 5'9" and 140-145lbs. 1/2 Italian, 1/4 German and 1/4 Irish. I have very fair skin and a few freckles. I have an average build (thin but not super thin) with a few strategically placed curves. My hair changes color and length weekly so ask for a current photo. My eyes are green and sometimes have a little gray and/or orange. My body measurements are 34D-28-36. My dress size can vary a lot by designer and cut. |
I'd appreciate the candid expression of your expectations. It is very important that we discuss your thoughts and ideas before meeting. However, please be courteous and polite. Do not ask for sex or sexual acts, I find it offensive and will not communicate at the level more over, I will not book with you. The money I receive is compensation for my time, companionship and intellectual stimulation only. I’m not a prostitute selling sexual services. Once again; I do not offer sex for money. I offer the adventure of real living. If you are “looking for a good time“, may I suggest a restroom wall somewhere? Please do not make an attempt to solicit or negotiate sexual or lewd conduct in exchange for money, I will not respond if you do. Really. I think it’s very important that you realize that this is not a pay to play situation, you can get that elsewhere. If you are just looking for a roll in the hay with a hot young thing I’m not your girl, sorry. However, if you are looking for someone who will make you think, feel, see and live differently, you’re in the right place. It is necessary that you understand and agree that all money exchanged is for the agreed upon time frame only. I do not watch clocks but I do ask that you respect my time and end our session as promptly as possible, as the situation allows. Clients who take advantage of my nature won't get priority in rebooking so common sense applies. All sound relationships are based on mutual respect and admiration. There must be trust and understanding from the start. So like I said, I'm picky. Not because I'm stuck up but because I know who I will and will not get along with. If I do turn down your request to meet please know that it's no more than a simple lack of chemistry. I turn down 75% of the request I get. |